Honesty, obsessiveness marks ‘Me and You’
PEGGY J. ROGERS
Can two people fall in love over a pair of pink shoes? People connect
with each other doing just about anything, and that’s the underlying
theme in the art-house comedy “Me and You and Everyone We Know.”
This is the first film by performance artist Miranda July, who
wrote, directed and stars in the movie. July’s characters feel so
detached from their world that they’re driven by blind desperation to
feel a connection with other people. They yearn for emotional
intimacy but have a hard time finding it.
The humor results when people are forced to deal with the
consequences of their behavior. Reality has a nasty way of creeping
into everyone’s personal fantasies.
July’s character, Christine, is a budding performance artist who
meets Richard (John Hawkes), a charming and vulnerable shoe salesman.
Richard is separated from his wife and has two sons. He’s waiting for
something magical to happen in his life.
Christine’s odd personality and aggressive approach confuses
Richard, making him feel both attracted to and threatened by her.
As Christine and Richard try to decipher the mixed messages they
send each other, Richard’s two sons, Robby (Brandon Ratcliff) and
Peter (Miles Thompson), are learning about life on their own. The two
boys are adjusting to the separation of their parents to moving into
an apartment with their dad.
Seven-year-old Robby occupies his time by chatting on the Internet
with a woman who thinks he’s a grown adult and is reaching out to him
for a sexual relationship. This would be disturbing if the woman
actually knew Robby was a child, or if Robby actually had a clue what
she was saying really meant. Instead, it’s just kind of a reminder
about limitations of Internet messenger chats.
His older brother Peter is taunted by neighborhood girls Heather
(Natasha Slayton) and Rebecca (Najarra Townsend). The two girls
aren’t quite 18, but are curious about what Richard’s co-worker
Andrew (Brad Henke) would say to them if they were. They begin using
Peter as a guinea pig for their sexual experimentation. Slayton is so
obnoxious that she’s one of the highlights of the movie.
When “Me and You and Everyone We Know” is at its best, the story
is so honest that you feel embarrassed for the characters. This is
one of those quirky slice-of-life movies, full of people who talk and
act like people you know. It acts as a confessional for events that
must have really happened at some point in July’s life.July’s
obsessions with both adolescent sexuality and vivid color could have
easily given this movie the title “Pink Freud.” Her art direction is
beautiful. There are a few moments when characters talk like people
in an art house movie, but for the most part the characters behave
and speak in ways that ring true.
It’s refreshing to see a filmmaker willing to take risks with both
characters and subject matter, and this is a great first movie. “Me
and You and Everyone We Know” has been winning audience awards at
festivals all year long, and it’s easy to see why.
* JIM ERWIN, 40, is a technical writer and computer trainer.
‘War’ a blockbuster of negative messages
Movies are a perfect vehicle for telling stories. The moving
pictures reach the human eye at the speed of light while sound
travels at a rate of five mph to our ears. The popularity of silent
movies before sound was added illustrates the attraction of moving
pictures.
Steven Spielberg’s “War of the Worlds” is a visually driven action
film that plays like a silent movie: You can follow the story with
the sound turned off.
The action, and not the words, tells the story. This remake of a
1950s science fiction movie is an undiluted chase film, a scary twist
to a kids’ game of hide and seek. Once the aliens land on the East
Coast, they seek out and kill every man, woman and child.
Only a handful of humans are able to outrun the UFO invaders after
the aliens’ surprise first strike. Unable to put much physical
distance between themselves and the attackers, people soon stop
running and start hiding in hopes of surviving another day.
Spielberg is a master of chase and pursuit movies, playing against
the audience’s expectations. Unlike cop stories that generally
feature the good guys chasing the bad guys, the director flips the
equation over by having the hero being chased, such as in the movies
“Jaws,” “Jurassic Park” and “Minority Report.”
“War of the Worlds,” however, is most similar to one of
Spielberg’s earliest works about a motorist unable to escape being
terrorized by a crazed truck driver. The made-for-TV movie “Duel” and
“War of the Worlds” both put their main focus on the chase. It gives
just a trickle of information about the characters outside of their
reaction to being relentlessly pursued.
One family in particular is blessed with incredible luck at
ducking and dodging the tireless aliens -- Ray (Tom Cruise), daughter
Rachel (Dakota Fanning of “Man on Fire”) and son Robbie.
As a deadbeat dad, Ray’s antagonistic attitude toward his ex-wife,
his children and their new stepfather appears to be the reason why
the wife split. If words were bullets, Ray’s snide and cutting
remarks to his pregnant ex would be as deadly as a blast from the
alien death machines.
The surprise attack by the aliens comes as a welcome relief in the
first act after watching Ray spew verbal abuse upon his teenage son
and tell his little girl in so many words to leave him alone. Ray is
friendlier toward his neighbors until the aliens emerge from their
hiding place and start to exterminate the human race. As the ugly
aliens turn on the humans, the humans turn on each other, stealing
from one another, refusing to lend a hand and, if need be, killing
each other.
When Ray and his family do align with neighbors and strangers
while on the run, the situations turn out badly. Helping others is no
help and more often proves a hindrance. The underlying message of the
sci-fi flick is “every man for himself.”
“War of the Worlds” puts an ugly twist to the saying, “United we
stand ... “ turning them into “Divided we stand, united we fall.”
Showing a negative human viewpoint is neither good nor bad, so
long as the portrayal is played out to the finish. Whether Ray
changes or is affected by the events when the story ends is as
uncertain as understanding why the story ends without a clear
explanation. There are a lot of unanswered questions about both the
characters and action when the film ends.
For being the big movie of the year, given its release on the
second busiest weekend of the year, “War of the Worlds” lacks the
thrills of recent Fourth of July blockbusters like “Independence Day”
or “Men in Black.”
“War of the Worlds” is worth watching, even if just to watch Tom
Cruise run for his life, but on DVD.
* PEGGY J. ROGERS, 40, produces videos and documentaries.
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